Relationships
This week’s Sex Diary follows a woman cheating with her ex while maintaining a stable domestic life. A reflection on midlife desire, don’t ask don’t tell, and the cost of avoiding hard conversations.
Relationships
After being ghosted, a gay grad student turns to sauna cruising and casual sex. The encounters are sex-positive and plentiful, but emotionally procedural. An ENM.life commentary on why not all sex reads as desire.
Relationships
A sexologist spends her birthday week in Europe with her dom, exploring kink Airbnbs, deep intimacy, and the emotional tenderness behind high-intensity BDSM. A diary about sex, trust, subdrop, and the love they refuse to name.
ENM
CNN recently covered new polling data showing rising public support for non-monogamoy. However, the report repeatedly used “polyamory” and “polygamy” interchangeably. They are not the same thing.
ENM
Study finds 59 percent of Gen Z are open to open or polyamorous relationships, 65 percent believe poly offer more enriching romantic and sexual experiences, 72 percent disclose other relationships to their partners, 85 percent say they would remain in a relationship even if sexual chemistry fades.
Relationships
She survived divorce, raised teenagers, and now finds herself wanting again. Two men, one carriage house, and a woman rediscovering her body and her future. A warm, human story of midlife desire returning on its own terms.
Relationships
A week of rain, sex, and rare self-awareness. A woman in an open relationship finds desire without losing her center, and shows how honesty can make even the wildest choices steadier.
Relationships
She isn’t choosing between lovers, she’s trying to survive a life she no longer recognizes. This week’s diarist moves from sugar baby glamour to suburban invisibility, using an affair to feel alive while her marriage quietly collapses.
ENM
In Berlin, youth pastor Lena Müller offered a blessing she described as "marriage in the eyes of God" to four gay men in a committed polyamorous relationship.
ENM
Kofi Siriboe says monogamy can feel “performative,” opening up about why he practices ethical non-monogamy. His reflections on relationships, fame, and personal truth shed light on the growing conversation around ENM in mainstream culture.
Relationships
Two lovers, one secret, and a week of desire disguised as freedom. What she calls choice might really be the fear of telling the truth.
Relationships
Two lovers, one secret, and a week of desire disguised as freedom. What she calls choice might really be the fear of telling the truth.
